Where does the summer go?
The carefree days of summer have left us and many of us are beginning to
settle into a fall schedule. If you have or care for younger ones, you may be working
to get a scheduled routine back on track.
There is no doubt that transitions can be difficult for all
ages; however, the behavior of our young ones can be particularly challenging with
even the smallest changes. As your family continues to transition back into the
school year, keep the following tips in mind from Hand in Hand: Nurturing the Parent-Child Connection:
Children benefit from information. When you need to change an activity, it's important to talk with your child about it. Presenting the information and allowing time for the information sink in will help prevent some of the power struggles that develop around transitions.
Children flourish with a tone of optimism. A tone that carries friendliness, optimism and understanding makes it more likely that a transition will go well. Having a tone of optimism can help children feel close enough to a parent or caregiver to cooperate with a necessary transition.
Sometimes your child needs to protest. The untold story about transitions is that children sometimes need to protest. Getting upset helps children address and release unhappy feelings.